december // 27 // 2016

california solocation

hou-to-diego“I haven’t been everywhere, but it’s on my list.”  ~Susan Sontag

Lately I have been thinking about taking a vacation, abroad, on my own.  Naturally,  a ton of reservations cross my mind: Safety, Boredom, Loneliness, will I get stuck in another country?

So, in an attempt to take a “trial run” I decided to head to California, alone, on my first SOLOcation. My trip out west was planned right after I was laid off.  What better time to go on a 2 week vacation than during a time where you don’t have to clock in to a cubicle, right?

My SOLOcation included a week long stay in San Diego and 5 days in the Bay Area.  Two different areas of California, with two different types of weather.  You can imagine the struggle I went through while packing, not to mention, the fees I paid because of overweight luggage.


Let me walk you through how I packed for this trip.

Of all the apps in app land, the one that I will gladly lay my life on the line for is the Stylebook Closet app.  I don’t have the time or space to tell you all the goodness of this app, but I’ll try.  This app is a virtual closet.  So, here is how it works…

Upload a photo of every item in your closet and separate the items into categories and subcategories, i.e. tops, long sleeve tops, blouses, bottoms, jeans, skirts, etc.  This process can be very time consuming, BUT since I do a lot of my shopping online, I just use the photos from the stores where I make the purchase.


After you have uploaded your items, including the brand, color, material, and/or price, you can start to create as many outfits you choose!  This helps me keep record of what I have in my closet. Once you actually wear an outfit or plan to wear an outfit, you can add it to the calendar. The app also informs you of the dollar amount per wear you get from each item.  So about the packing part.  One of the features on the app is the “packing” feature.  You create a trip and add the looks you have planned to wear on that trip.  The app creates a packing list, by category, from the outfits you included! Once you actually pack the item, you check it off on the app.

So back to my packing for this SOLOcation.  Once I created “looks” on the app, I pulled every item from my closet and started the elimination process, removing items that I knew I wouldn’t wear and pieces that could possibly take up too much space in my suitcase.


A little much, right?  Don’t worry, I didn’t take everything pictured, but I didn’t eliminate much, either.  I ended up paying weight overage charges for every single flight.  No bueno and never again.  I bought some amazing luggage from Amazon, for a great price, click here, and these pretty awesome packing cubes by HOPSOOKEN.  Since I spent most of my time in San Diego, I wanted to separate the clothing for San Fran.  The cubes were helpful because they allowed me to compartmentalize my clothing by categories.

This SOLOcation was absolutely amazing, and I would absolutely do it again.  The best part of traveling alone was that I was able to do whatever I wanted to do without having to consider others and their needs and wants.  It also afforded me the opportunity to meet and talk to new people.  Because this trip was so long and filled with so many amazing trips to tell you about, I decided to break the posts up instead of one long essay.  You’re welcome.  I hope you enjoy Southern and Northern California through my eyes.  Stay tuned for my San Diego post!



PS – If you are thinking about taking a solo trip and are a bit hesitant I recommend you just go for it.  If needed, take a mini trip to somewhere in the States first.

SEPTEMBER // 14 // 2015


My beautiful cousin married the love of her life last weekend and we celebrated her last days as a single woman in New Orleans, the weekend before.  Even though we spent more hours on the road than in Nawlins, and my car was towed when I returned home to Houston, it was all worth it! The food was worth it, the hand grenades were definitely worth it, and the music had me twerking (my version of twerking) all night!  Worth it!


The bride requested that we wear black, white, or a combination of both, so I went for the all white, a decision that was not very smart when roaming the streets of Bourbon, but I worked it out.  Unfortunately I took no pictures but you can see a bit of my white romper in the pic, above.

Check out my Saturday Night Nawlins get up.  I’m aware that the romper is white and I know it’s Post Labor Day, but if you live in a city with weather similar to Houston, and you don’t care about rules,  you can rock this white fit like I did!  I’ve included the links to my exact items and similar pieces you can score, along with the cute weekender I packed them in!


Beauty & Cosmetics

  1. NARS ‘Audacious’ Lipstick • NARS • $32
  2. Tom Ford Lip Color Matte • $52
  3. Christian Louboutin Beaute Nail Colour, Just Nothing • $50 
  4. Chanel Chance , Eau De Toilette Spray • $60–122 



  1. Open Pearl Bangle • $10.90 
  2. BCBGeneration Gold-Tone Crystal Stack Ring • $12 
  3. Jacquie Aiche JA Mini Snake Ring • $165
  4. Nixon Time Teller Watch • $95
  5. Gold Stacks Ring Set • $42
  6. Kendra Scott Ivy 14k Gold-Plated Cuff Bracelet • $87.75
  7. Kendra Scott Elton Bangle • $70 
  8. Cara Circular Crystal Ear Cuff • $18 


Shoes and Bags

  1. Mossimo Supply Co. Women’s Woven Trim Solid Weekender Handbag – Brown • $34.99
  2. 100mm Jeweled Faux Leather Cage Sandals • $65 
  3. Roll-Top Oversized Clutch White • $36
  4. Alexandre Birman Leather and Snakeskin Wavy Tie-Back Pump, Nude/Natural • $695 
  5. Mossimo Supply Co. Women’s Doris Footbed Sandals • $8.74 


White Romper

  1. findersKEEPERS Moonlight Romper • $74 – My actual romper!
  2. Clove Layered Cutout Eyelet Lace Romper (Nordstrom Exclusive) • $128

The Bachelorette Weekend was totes fun, but I was exhausted!

Happy Shopping!


♥ Starr

I pray many blessings to my cousin and her hubby and their union.  

He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD. – Proverbs 18:22


J U N E // 1 5 // 2 0 1 5


I have to have the best luck ever to have close friends who live in the best city in America.  I try to make it my mission in life to make a visit out to San Diego, at least once per year, to get away from the hot humidity box that is Houston. However, my last trip to Diego forced me to realize how much of a love hate relationship I have with humidity.  It’s great for my hair and skin, but not so good for my clothes….I sweat.  A lot.

Anyway, because I have no grasp on practical packing, I stuffed my carry on to capacity with clothes, and bikinis, that pretty much went untouched.


To shop the pieces that I forced into this carry on, take a look at a few of the exact pieces I packed and items similar to the pieces that are unfortunately sold out.


Ted Baker London Paisley Toucan Printed Shift Dress • Ted Baker • $275
Red Carter Geometric Print Cover-Up Kimono • Red Carter • $96.80
H&M – Denim Shorts – Dark denim blue – Ladies • H&M • $19.95
Madden Girl Women’s Raceyyy Dress Pump • Madden-Girl • $22.10–48.74
Soybu elle striped yoga tee – women’s • $49.30
Foiled Heart Fold-Over Yoga Legging • Express • $29.90
River Island MensWhite blue faded LA California print tank • River Island • $20
Women’s The Boyfriend Skinny Ankle Jeans (27″) • Old Navy • $29.97–30
V Neck With Pocket White Blouse • $12.50
Women’s Text-Graphic Tees • Old Navy • $4.99–11.99
Topshop Moto ‘Leigh’ Distressed Skinny Jeans (White) (Regular & Short) • Topshop • $65
Beth Romper • Yumi Kim • $198
Sam Edelman ‘Eleanor’ Snake Embossed Ankle Strap Sandal (Women) • Sam Edelman • $129.95
H&M – Denim Shorts – Dark gray – Ladies • H&M • $19.95–19.99
The pictures below were taken on my visit, last year, as we were taking a morning stroll through the neighborhood.
My last trip was over the Memorial Day Weekend, so we drove to the Cabrillo National Monument and snapped a few photos.
Can you see Mexico in the background?
If you have not had the opportunity to visit Sunny San Diego, you should make that a priority!
If for nothing else, do it for this guy….
Until next time, Diego…..and Honey Bunny.
~ xoxo
♥ Starr

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